You meet someone attractive. You feel as if you are out of league and not interesting to that person at all. Or you feel you’ve got nothing to talk about.I
f you are familiar with these situations, here’s a little tip I want to share with you.
(By the way, it’s most likely the case that you’re already attractive. Don’t worry about that part.)
Think of a beautiful moment you’ve ever experienced.
- Why did you find it beautiful?
- What’s the story behind that moment… how did things lead up to that moment and how did you feel about that moment of beauty?
- What happened afterwards?
- What’s significant about your experience of this beautiful moment in a bigger picture about your life?
Think about these questions.
When you’ve answered these questions, you’ll have interesting things to talk about and to share with people you want to connect with. The next time you interact with people you want to get to know deeper, bring up this topic about beautiful moments, ask them about what I asked you to think about, and share your experiences with them as an example.
What? You don’t know how to bring this up naturally, especially when you’ve just met someone? The easiest way for you is to mention this post and to talk about it.
You could say something like… “I read this blog post and it was about beautiful moments… it made me think about my experiences. I wonder what’s one of the most beautiful moments you’ve ever experienced. For me, it’s…”
If you want to be able to bring this up naturally, you need to practice. Try to ask people around you about their beautiful moments and share your beautiful moments with them as well.
Here’s what I like about sharing beautiful moments with others – when you share these moments with others and make connections with them, that moment when they come to share these beautiful moments with you becomes a beautiful moment as well.
If you have any questions or if there is any particular topic you want me to write about, please do let me know via e-mail or by leaving a comment below. I’m here to help you all bring more love to your life.
So, what’s one of the most beautiful moments you’ve ever had? I’m curious…